The dredded L word...

So my cousin is getting married this weekend so naturally I've been thinking about relationships and love and all that good stuff...Ha ha my friend's boyfriend tried to hook me up with one of his friends recently. Not only is he a frat boy, (and a Q at that!) which I just hate, but he's like close to 30 and looks like he's 35. *sighs* What can you do? All my friends have boyfriends so in turn when we hang out, I become third wheel. What I really want more than anything is to have someone who is my friend first and my lover second. The physical should just be a bonus.

And another thing I just need to vent about...why are some people off limits?! I don't mean ppl who are in relationships, but single ppl that you're not supposed to talk to you cause your boy/girl talked to them years ago. Like why do you need to ask my ex of 3 years ago if you can take me out...ask if you have permission. Excuse me!? Am I a piece of property? Hello! He is my ex...he has no claim over me and it was 3 years ago! It's like if you are someone's ex, (esp if the ex has a new boo!) why are we still attached to that person forever? That sends a message that once we date someone, we're never allowed to move on with our lives. It makes me so angry that people get so offended if you end up liking someone they talked to. We can't switch on and off our feelings...it happens. And no I don't feel like explaining what this blog stems from so don't ask. Period. Ok I' m done venting lol

Anyways I'm bout to bonce out of New Orleans soon so who knows how many times I'll be able to blog cause I'm pretty sure they have limited technology where I'm going...My brother's lifestyle is country living so we'll see.

Supposed to be going out for drinks with my brother, his wife, and my no good sister tonight...Wedding on sat day and night...Goin to a bday party sat that I'm a lil nervous for...eventful weekend.